Lawn Care Business Forum Lawn Care Business Book Lawn Care Business Blog Lawn Care Software
Home Forum Contract & Flyer Templates Blog Software Videos Podcast Calculators / Estimators Store Mower Review Design It Yourself Lawn Business School

Go Back   GopherHaul Landscaping & Lawn Care Business Marketing Forum > Lawn Care, Landscaping, and Property Management Forums > General Talk

General Talk If it doesn't fit anywhere else, post it here.

Father is visiting!


General Talk

If it doesn't fit anywhere else, post it here.
Reply
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread
  #1  
Old 09-14-2009, 12:00 PM
CHEESE2009's Avatar
CHEESE2009 CHEESE2009 is offline
Dr. Scott - Ruler of the Underworld
 
Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: Switzerland, Grindelwald
Age: 73
Posts: 4,475
Rep Power: 10
CHEESE2009 is on a distinguished road
Default Father is visiting!

So my father is in town, I haven't seen him for 6 or so years. Before then I never really saw him anyway, but I did move in with him for 4-5 months once!


Anyway, he's back & left me a message to go to dinner tonight. I said sure!

My brother on the other hand doesn't want to go!

I'm so angry with my brother. With every passing day he just becomes more anti-social, & with family that bugs the heck out of me!

He's been given so much in his life & he's never the one to give back. He's a cheap & selfish prick.

You have to beat him with a stick to get any sort of help from him. I'm the son who loves to give a helping hand when it comes to family, my brother is the one who sneaks away to hide, living under a rock.

Over the phone I asked him why he's not going.

Scott: Dad wants us to meet him at Moe's for dinner tonight.

Brother: Who?

Scott: Our father!

Brother: Ok, and?

Scott: Are you going?

Brother: No.

Scott: Why?

Brother: I don't want to.

Scott: Why?

Brother: I have other plans tonight.


PLANS MY BEHIND! He's gonna go home & play computer games all damn night, I know him too well!

......

I messaged my dad saying my brother isn't going, & if it's just him & I, we should go catch a movie or something.
Reply With Quote

Stop guess-timating. Learn how to estimate and make money! $$$
Mow Time Estimator Lawn Care Price Estimator Mulch and Topsoil Calculator Snow Plow Estimate Calculator


  #2  
Old 09-14-2009, 04:24 PM
Steve's Avatar
Steve Steve is offline
Administrator
 
Join Date: May 2003
Posts: 36,603
Rep Power: 10
Steve has disabled reputation
Default

Lawn care business tipsLawn Care Business Book
Everyone handles situations differently. They see situations differently.

What can you do, but just try to be the best you can be. Maybe you can inspire others with your success as you go.

I hope you have a good dinner tonight and I hope he is impressed with all that you are doing!
__________________
- Subscribe to my Lawn Care Marketing Blog Feed and get daily tips sent to you. Free!
Download your Free trial of Gopher Lawn Care Software.
Reply With Quote
  #3  
Old 09-15-2009, 02:38 AM
CHEESE2009's Avatar
CHEESE2009 CHEESE2009 is offline
Dr. Scott - Ruler of the Underworld
 
Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: Switzerland, Grindelwald
Age: 73
Posts: 4,475
Rep Power: 10
CHEESE2009 is on a distinguished road
Default

Well, the night was great!

We went out to dinner & didn't let me pay!

He said he wishes the night didn't have to end, so I said, "Let's go catch a movie!"

He said, only if he can pay for it!

So we saw that movie there, "Something yada yada Bastards" it wasn't my kinda flick, but still enjoyed the time with Dad.


We talked a lot, had many pauses because there was so much to talk about it's hard to say anything!

He started cutting lawns again, along side with his real estate agent career.

He's also doing some tile work, well, ANY work he can find.


One of his lawn service clients did the most awesome thing;


Customer: Do you have any family?
Dad: I have 2 sons in Montreal.
Customer: When is the last time you've seen them?
Dad: 6 years.
Customer: Why don't you visit them?
Dad: I can't afford too.

THE CUSTOMER PAID FOR HIS PLANE TICKET TO MONTREAL!!!

It's awesome I get to see my dad, but I'm worried for him.

He's just as successful as I am, & that doesn't help him much.

I wish I could get him some more work.

If you live in Nova Scotia, leave me a message!

Give my dad some work, hire him, whatever it takes!


He's worked in the mines, security, bouncer, computer company, furniture making, lawn maintenance, commercial cleaning, odd jobs, real estate, painting... etc, anything you can think of!

It sucks to see that he's aging without a steady income.

He re-married a couple of years ago, now divorced again. Life is tough!

Today I had the urge to slip him a couple grand, but I thought it would kill him if I did that.




So he's doing lawn maintenance. Puts the mower in his tiny car, think he has a trailer (I'm unsure).

His PUSH mower isn't bought from a dealer, so it's crap for sure. He doesn't trim or use a blower.

Though the man can surely cut grass!
Reply With Quote
  #4  
Old 09-15-2009, 06:33 AM
picframer's Avatar
picframer picframer is offline
Andy
 
Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Halifax, Nova Scotia
Posts: 2,885
Rep Power: 9
picframer will become famous soon enough
Default

That sounds like a great evening with your father!

Where in Nova Scotia is he? I am in Halifax and what kind of work is he looking for?
__________________
Andy
Halifax, Nova Scotia
Reply With Quote
  #5  
Old 09-15-2009, 07:18 AM
CHEESE2009's Avatar
CHEESE2009 CHEESE2009 is offline
Dr. Scott - Ruler of the Underworld
 
Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: Switzerland, Grindelwald
Age: 73
Posts: 4,475
Rep Power: 10
CHEESE2009 is on a distinguished road
Default

He's basically a guy who wants to learn everything.

He enjoys lawn maintenance for sure, but anything that pays the bills is alright with him!

He's a pretty healthy guy too, must be 50 years old give or take?

very easy to get along with, probably someone I'd hang out with regardless if he's family or not. Very positive man.

We've had our differences, but in the end I gotta say he was always right.

I think he's capable of learning new things & performing tasks that others don't even bother with.

He's quick with a mower, comes with experience. I could see him learning a lot & enjoying every bit of it.

He's very hands on, not afraid to get dirty. So whatever you have offered will most likely be alright with him!

I tried looking him up on google, he was all over it being a Realtor and what not... don't see him there now

I believe he's in Nova Scotia / Halifax
Reply With Quote
  #6  
Old 09-15-2009, 02:44 PM
picframer's Avatar
picframer picframer is offline
Andy
 
Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Halifax, Nova Scotia
Posts: 2,885
Rep Power: 9
picframer will become famous soon enough
Default

Can you email me his contact information or somehow have him email me? I am looking for three or four additional people at the moment as things have not slowed down yet alondon(at)oakridgeyardcare.ca
__________________
Andy
Halifax, Nova Scotia
Reply With Quote
Reply

Bookmarks

Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is On
Forum Jump

Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
Father & Son team get news coverage Steve Lawn Care Marketing & Post your marketing material for review! 4 10-14-2007 09:34 PM
Visiting the VA Hospitals Steve Franchise Building, Entrepreneurs, Business Leaders, & Innovators Discussions 0 09-06-2007 06:26 PM

» Recent Threads
  RatingTitle, Username, & Date Last Post Replies Views
Beginner Mistakes:...
Steve
01-31-2007 12:45 PM
Today 09:20 AM
by ExtremeLawncareServices
19 5,968
These are the days on...
ExtremeLawncareServices
03-22-2014 10:12 AM
Yesterday 09:48 PM
by ExtremeLawncareServices
174 13,854
Hello from Kentucky
TRV
09-30-2014 06:42 PM
Yesterday 09:38 PM
by TRV
6 1,227
Contract or no contract?
TRV
11-20-2014 09:18 PM
Yesterday 09:33 PM
by TRV
3 95
Hi to you NOTHERNERS
stevef1201
11-11-2014 05:56 PM
Yesterday 08:02 PM
by stevef1201
4 269
Billboards for marketing
ExtremeLawncareServices
11-16-2014 08:39 PM
Yesterday 07:05 PM
by acrajchel
13 321
Pics for website
tbtigers03
Yesterday 05:40 PM
Yesterday 06:48 PM
by acrajchel
2 47
New website
Chilehead
11-20-2014 04:39 PM
Yesterday 06:43 PM
by Steve
3 89
Belt dealer problem
googus
Yesterday 08:45 AM
Yesterday 06:36 PM
by Steve
2 63
Good help is hard to find
Hanks Lawn Care Services
11-19-2014 03:27 PM
Yesterday 06:32 PM
by Steve
7 165
My site is on fronts page
tbtigers03
11-14-2014 05:58 PM
Yesterday 06:28 PM
by acrajchel
15 419
Peco Bagger
AGPS
11-18-2014 02:20 PM
Yesterday 06:22 PM
by acrajchel
8 218
How to: Use Thumbtack...
acrajchel
11-17-2014 06:39 PM
Yesterday 06:07 PM
by acrajchel
15 416
What is going on with...
biglee
11-14-2014 03:04 PM
11-20-2014 02:50 PM
by biglee
40 874
My advice for new guys
avetslawncare
11-15-2014 09:32 AM
11-19-2014 01:47 PM
by biglee
10 414
Lawn Care business...
crieg122
10-23-2014 02:23 PM
11-19-2014 12:39 PM
by acrajchel
28 1,785
raking leaves ?
robert8509
10-22-2014 10:19 PM
11-18-2014 04:24 PM
by acrajchel
14 1,398
Leaf removal
madmedic8575
10-24-2014 05:14 PM
11-17-2014 07:34 PM
by acrajchel
6 1,142
sod job
SGlawncare
10-30-2014 09:21 PM
11-17-2014 07:10 PM
by acrajchel
7 716
Customer wants me to...
Mr. Mow
11-09-2014 07:13 AM
11-17-2014 06:48 PM
by acrajchel
10 472
Hello!
Brian3137
11-11-2014 07:15 PM
11-17-2014 06:46 PM
by acrajchel
14 409
small biz in Phoenix,AZ
anthonyramos1
11-08-2014 09:35 PM
11-17-2014 05:59 PM
by acrajchel
2 277
Client won't pay...
WesleySnips
10-30-2014 03:53 PM
11-17-2014 05:37 PM
by acrajchel
22 1,302
Government contracts
avetslawncare
11-15-2014 08:50 AM
11-17-2014 12:59 PM
by Steve
2 202
Need help on deciding a...
Brian3137
11-10-2014 06:32 PM
11-17-2014 12:44 PM
by Steve
12 470
West cost lawn prices
SGlawncare
10-09-2014 10:51 PM
11-16-2014 07:54 AM
by stevef1201
8 1,546
So how do you guys...
Mr. Mow
10-26-2014 08:55 AM
11-15-2014 08:44 AM
by avetslawncare
14 1,654
Truck, Trailer,...
hawthornelawncare
12-23-2011 01:01 AM
11-13-2014 08:35 AM
by jrs.landscaping
81 31,717
The most dangerous part...
Steve
10-06-2014 03:45 PM
11-12-2014 05:05 PM
by stevef1201
14 1,624
A little hang up in snow...
stevef1201
11-08-2014 07:05 AM
11-12-2014 12:51 PM
by Steve
4 383
Bi-weekly winter...
lxarth
11-04-2014 08:37 PM
11-12-2014 10:06 AM
by WesleySnips
9 579
taking first steps...
sizemorelawncare
11-10-2014 08:24 PM
11-11-2014 01:21 PM
by Steve
1 270
Back Pack Blower
Ian Lovejoy
11-09-2014 08:41 AM
11-11-2014 08:12 AM
by Just for Cuts
4 338
Business Cards
crieg122
10-25-2014 01:03 PM
11-11-2014 07:56 AM
by Just for Cuts
12 1,271
How the unregister?
alive101
11-04-2014 07:39 AM
11-10-2014 01:48 PM
by Steve
4 564
Belt adjustment question
googus
11-05-2014 06:43 AM
11-10-2014 01:38 PM
by Steve
5 469
New parking area
ExtremeLawncareServices
11-07-2014 09:47 PM
11-10-2014 01:25 PM
by Steve
2 298
Podcast
Shark1611
11-07-2014 05:42 PM
11-10-2014 11:41 AM
by Steve
1 265
hi, from Minnesota
rjklohn
11-07-2014 02:21 AM
11-07-2014 01:44 PM
by Steve
1 277
New to snow plowing
SS.Lawncare
11-05-2014 04:00 PM
11-07-2014 01:21 PM
by Steve
6 509
New Member
tonyap
11-05-2014 10:35 PM
11-07-2014 01:15 PM
by Steve
1 327
New to the business
jcurr33
11-05-2014 03:21 PM
11-07-2014 01:11 PM
by Steve
1 375
Lines
Matther777
11-04-2014 02:19 PM
11-07-2014 12:54 PM
by Steve
1 415
hello, new to this site
tonyorwig
10-31-2014 10:49 PM
11-04-2014 02:24 PM
by tonyorwig
3 613
Aloha from Hawaii.
Gary R
11-02-2014 12:44 AM
11-03-2014 03:02 PM
by Steve
1 515
Pavers
crieg122
10-28-2014 03:49 PM
10-31-2014 01:49 PM
by Steve
6 826
Hi Steve From West...
Mr. Mow
10-21-2014 02:59 PM
10-31-2014 12:56 PM
by Steve
5 1,141
Got my first lawn job...
SGL1
06-11-2014 10:19 PM
10-31-2014 10:53 AM
by Max Wagner
30 3,250
Gie-review / What's new...
ExtremeLawncareServices
10-25-2014 10:19 AM
10-31-2014 10:30 AM
by ExtremeLawncareServices
7 1,068
Business Name
sanchez5
10-29-2014 12:55 AM
10-31-2014 06:51 AM
by ringahding1
10 940
» Popular Tags
4wd aerocore apartment bid apartment complex bid billy goat brushcutter bush charge christmas deliquentaccounts ditches employee problems equipment rental estimate exmark ferris first truck foreman georgia gopherhaul gravely holiday how much to charge how to bid husqvarna hydraulic installation introduction jobs kawasaki landscape services lawn lawn care lawn care business podcast lawn care business seo lawn care business show lawn care business website lawn care business website seo lawn care seo lawn care website lawn care website seo managing a lawn care business marketing mowing mr dave mulch mulch price new business ordinance podcast push versus ride redmax reo savannah scag v-ride seo shreaded small engine repair starting a business start up lawn care business steep lawns toro tractor auger trailer trimmer rack truck new used landscape walker won't return wood wright stander rh
Powered by vBadvanced CMPS v3.1.0

All times are GMT -5. The time now is 11:19 AM.


(C) 2011 Riggs Publications - Terms of use & Privacy Policy

All times are GMT -5. The time now is 11:19 AM.

(C) 2011 Riggs Publications - Terms of use & Privacy Policy