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Old 03-06-2012, 08:39 PM
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I have been suspecting that my wife has been fooling around on me for the last few months ,she has been coming home late ,I answer the phone and somebody just hangs up ,goes out with her girlfriends often ,just a bad feeling I have had .Anyways ,last night ,I decided to hide in behind my trailer in the garage and wait for her .Anyway ,sure enough she climbed out of a strange car ,buttoned up her top ,and then took her panties from her purse and put them on before coming into the house .Anyway ,while I was behind my trailer ,I noticed one tire was bulged out on the sidewall ,a little more than the other .Do any of you think theres a serious issue with my tire ,or what?
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I have been suspecting that my wife has been fooling around on me for the last few months ,she has been coming home late ,I answer the phone and somebody just hangs up ,goes out with her girlfriends often ,just a bad feeling I have had .Anyways ,last night ,I decided to hide in behind my trailer in the garage and wait for her .Anyway ,sure enough she climbed out of a strange car ,buttoned up her top ,and then took her panties from her purse and put them on before coming into the house .Anyway ,while I was behind my trailer ,I noticed one tire was bulged out on the sidewall ,a little more than the other .Do any of you think theres a serious issue with my tire ,or what?
I think you may have a serious tire issue....you may want to get that checked out....
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You just have to know when it's time to move on.

Ditch that bitc... I mean tire, and get on with your life.
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If the situation is true with the wife confront her but be prepared to find a new home fast. Good luck and sorry to hear. Been there not a good feeling.
On the tire bring it in to a tire shop/ trailer company most likely need a new one.
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well first things first, you got to take care of the important things in life.
so for god's sake get that tire replaced before something bad happens to that trailer or anything that is on it.

as for the tramp, and yes she is a tramp, don't say a word and get a lawyer and build a case on her and get every little thing you can and all the while play like the dumb fool that she thinks you are and let her dig her own grave.

you will need all the help you can get because woman always garner the sympathy of the court's and you need to set the stage that you were a good loyal husband doing your part while your wife was living a double life full of lies.

like i said play dumb and act as if you are totaly oblivious to what she is doing because as soon as she gets the vibe you are on to her she will try and make a power play on you and she will ride that other pony to get a free ride and start playing the victim.

be prepared to see some ugly and painfull things and always keep in mind that for her to do what she is doing she obviously does not give a crap about you and you got to keep the emotion out of it and stick to the business of getting revenge and protecting your assets.

being in my mid 40's i have seen several of my freinds go through the same thing and i had one guy get all emotional and went straight up to her and confronted her about it and she was so pissed she got caught next thing you know she was calling the cops and saying he hit her and fileing restraining orders against him and getting him kicked out of his own home.

they were all lies and the only thing this guy ever did was fall in love with someone and dedicate his whole life to her only to get sheep shackled over the coals.

like i said you need to be cool hand luke and play dumb and you got to get all dick tracy on her azz and get everything you can on her and get a lawyer early on which will not only aid you in the best way to go about it but it will also be documenting the proccess.

if she is home during the day, find out if this dude is coming to your house and see if these hang up you are getting is him. check phone records.
you need to prove this was not only happening but they were also conspireing against you.
it proves that this was no innocent mistake and was done with full intent.

you also when the time is right need to be the first one to file for divorce and let the whole news of the divorce slap her in the face when she gets handed the papers and not a moment sooner.
you also need to get a restraining order against here boyfreind so he stays away from your home and get that in place prior to her finding out whether he did anything to you or not.

providing you have never cheated on her or abused her you need to play the victim card here or you will get screwed no matter what else you do.

the guy i know who got emotional and confronted his wife lost everything he had financially and even had a ton of legal issues that she brought on him falsely that he had to deal with for several years afterward.

the guys i know who bit their tongues and built their cases and did not even say a word until the first court hearing walked away as cleanly as you could for a divorce, still kept their homes, did not lose their businesses and even got the lion share of the control over the kids.

the guys who cut away clean all said that by taking the intial action and doing their homework first and serving the papers was key in them sticking it back to them and they also said that after the cat gets out of the bag keep your reason for divorce very simple to something like differences of opinion and DO NOT SAY A WORD AS TO THE REAL REASON'S WHY UNTIL THE NEED ARRISES IN A COURT ROOM.

why?, because as soon as you slap the papers on her she is going to go get one of those fancy lawyers too and you will now be public enemy #1 and that is when she and the lawyer will come up with all kinds of made up ways to get by your claims and make it appear as if you drove her to do what she did.

sorry to get all into the divorce talk but all i can say is i been married for 24 years and got two children and i love my wife and kids to death and i never would even consider being unfaithfull, but if i seen my wife get out of a car late at night putting her under garments back on and putting all the other pieces together, there would only be one plan for recourse.

there is no excuse for that from a woman or a man if you are not happy then man up and be done with it and move on with your life instead of sneaking around on someone living a double life.
call me old fashioned or what you like but if a man or woman can not trust their spouse to be faithfull then there really is nothing you could trust them with and pretty much ends the need for that relationship.


but, to get back to the important stuff, get that tire fixed!!!
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P.S., i forgot to add, kill her with kindness and act so oblivious to what she is doing that she will think you are a simple minded individual and she will get all torn up with guilt for what she is doing.

this way when you slap her the papers she will be in the remorse stages of what she did and as they say " revenge is better served cold ".
it will be the ultimate buzzkill for her.
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I noticed one tire was bulged out on the sidewall ,a little more than the other .Do any of you think theres a serious issue with my tire ,or what?
I think that means part of the belt along the sidewall broke from hitting something, like a curb or pot hole.

The more weight you are pulling on your trailer, the more I would be concerned with it.
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thanks for the help guys ,the tire was about 8 lbs low ,they were brand new in December when I put the trailer away ,a little soap and I found the valve core was leaking so fixed it up and good to go now .
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Hmmmm, might take a bit more detective work to come to a decision. What kind of car was it? Some kind of sharp sports car, i.e., a Vette or an old Muscle Car? If so, confront the wife immediately. Tell her how rude she is to come home like that, hop out of the car half dressed and come sneaking into the house. The least she could do is invite him in for coffee or a beer and introduce you. Talk shop for a bit and maybe he'll let you take the car around the block a time or 2....
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