You are following in my footsteps my friend!
If there was one thing I had learned, it's that people will lie in order to get a better deal than you had already offered them. It's sickening how true it is.
In a nutshell, what you are dealing with, are clients who attempt to size you up to see what they can get away with. They will do whatever it takes to use you by playing 'dumb'. They totally understand the reason behind your pricing, but they will refuse to let you know that.
You are right when you say it's usually the elderly, or those with low income.
(or even those of a certain religion I dare not say).
When this happened to me during the early stage of my business, I would continue being the nice guy and try to please them. Now I take offence, considering how much trouble these type of people have caused me.
It took me awhile to build up the attitude I have today. I went from;
"Alright. I will knock off a few dollars"
This starts a downward spiral of the client requesting all sorts of favors and discounts, very tricky to get out of.
to
"No way. Personally, working for any less than what I offered doesn't interest me"
Sure they can get a taste of my nasty attitude, but sometimes they learn to respect me more, weird I know. I believe it has something to do with being more dominant than your client, give them the impression that you don't NEED them, and it's their loss if they decide not to hire you.
You will sleep better at night knowing you didn't screw yourself over, I know how it feels to go home knowing I just let someone use me.
One final note: Your generosity will kill you. It opens up Pandora's box.
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As for pricing, it's more of a headache. My area has so much competition the price went from $27.50 to $17.50 per visit. No company charges more than that down here, whoever does will NOT get any business. It's very difficult.
A lot of my competition are all meth heads too, strange... I'm starting to think you are me from the past, I'm pretty sure I wrote word for word what you have written! LOL
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I have turned into a pretty bad guy when it comes caring about my clients. I get treated pretty poorly by many, so in return I eventually 'cracked'. I have no problem letting the client know that I think they are stupid, by using sarcasm. It helps.
I went as far as to tell a client, "I can see that you are speaking out of your *** right now".
Answering their phone calls if I know I did my job, aint gonna happen. I don't respect them enough, business or not - it's working for me!
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Picking up business is difficult in our shared situation. I would suggest taking whoever will go for your price, but don't give them any chances like I had done.
I don't give chances anymore and they end up begging me to take them back in the end once I drop them, and I still keep all of the clients they had gotten me. If they ask, I just say, "I couldn't trust him, he was giving me a hard time", end of story.
I hope this was helpful. My advice isn't perfect, I tend to move from extreme to extreme. Just thought I'd share my experiences with you.
ONE last thing. You are not alone. In the beginning all my clients were against me, and they nearly convinced me that I'm not 'fair'. The truth is, if a client pays me, he/she will receive proper service. Apparently to clients, being unfair is not letting them take a year to pay me for work I have done.
