I don't pay myself or my wife. I do have a kid and that isn't cheap. But I pay bills, mostly business related and the rest I spend on the business. She does get her hair done and all that female stuff, but I don't spend money unless it will make me money.
I don't have a house note, truck is paid off. So I have very little outside bills other than business. And that's where all of my money goes.
Sometimes I tell my wife that we won't eat tonight because my advertising ate our dinner and she's gets mad haha