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Old 03-07-2012, 07:57 AM
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well first things first, you got to take care of the important things in life.
so for god's sake get that tire replaced before something bad happens to that trailer or anything that is on it.

as for the tramp, and yes she is a tramp, don't say a word and get a lawyer and build a case on her and get every little thing you can and all the while play like the dumb fool that she thinks you are and let her dig her own grave.

you will need all the help you can get because woman always garner the sympathy of the court's and you need to set the stage that you were a good loyal husband doing your part while your wife was living a double life full of lies.

like i said play dumb and act as if you are totaly oblivious to what she is doing because as soon as she gets the vibe you are on to her she will try and make a power play on you and she will ride that other pony to get a free ride and start playing the victim.

be prepared to see some ugly and painfull things and always keep in mind that for her to do what she is doing she obviously does not give a crap about you and you got to keep the emotion out of it and stick to the business of getting revenge and protecting your assets.

being in my mid 40's i have seen several of my freinds go through the same thing and i had one guy get all emotional and went straight up to her and confronted her about it and she was so pissed she got caught next thing you know she was calling the cops and saying he hit her and fileing restraining orders against him and getting him kicked out of his own home.

they were all lies and the only thing this guy ever did was fall in love with someone and dedicate his whole life to her only to get sheep shackled over the coals.

like i said you need to be cool hand luke and play dumb and you got to get all dick tracy on her azz and get everything you can on her and get a lawyer early on which will not only aid you in the best way to go about it but it will also be documenting the proccess.

if she is home during the day, find out if this dude is coming to your house and see if these hang up you are getting is him. check phone records.
you need to prove this was not only happening but they were also conspireing against you.
it proves that this was no innocent mistake and was done with full intent.

you also when the time is right need to be the first one to file for divorce and let the whole news of the divorce slap her in the face when she gets handed the papers and not a moment sooner.
you also need to get a restraining order against here boyfreind so he stays away from your home and get that in place prior to her finding out whether he did anything to you or not.

providing you have never cheated on her or abused her you need to play the victim card here or you will get screwed no matter what else you do.

the guy i know who got emotional and confronted his wife lost everything he had financially and even had a ton of legal issues that she brought on him falsely that he had to deal with for several years afterward.

the guys i know who bit their tongues and built their cases and did not even say a word until the first court hearing walked away as cleanly as you could for a divorce, still kept their homes, did not lose their businesses and even got the lion share of the control over the kids.

the guys who cut away clean all said that by taking the intial action and doing their homework first and serving the papers was key in them sticking it back to them and they also said that after the cat gets out of the bag keep your reason for divorce very simple to something like differences of opinion and DO NOT SAY A WORD AS TO THE REAL REASON'S WHY UNTIL THE NEED ARRISES IN A COURT ROOM.

why?, because as soon as you slap the papers on her she is going to go get one of those fancy lawyers too and you will now be public enemy #1 and that is when she and the lawyer will come up with all kinds of made up ways to get by your claims and make it appear as if you drove her to do what she did.

sorry to get all into the divorce talk but all i can say is i been married for 24 years and got two children and i love my wife and kids to death and i never would even consider being unfaithfull, but if i seen my wife get out of a car late at night putting her under garments back on and putting all the other pieces together, there would only be one plan for recourse.

there is no excuse for that from a woman or a man if you are not happy then man up and be done with it and move on with your life instead of sneaking around on someone living a double life.
call me old fashioned or what you like but if a man or woman can not trust their spouse to be faithfull then there really is nothing you could trust them with and pretty much ends the need for that relationship.


but, to get back to the important stuff, get that tire fixed!!!
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